Our Camping System: Plan, Reflect, Reset, Repeat

There is one weekend a year in our house that nothing is allowed to touch.

Sports tournaments come up. Invitations come up. Something always comes up. And every year, this weekend wins anyway. It's automatically on the calendar, and whatever else lands on those dates takes the second seat.

It's our family camping trip. Four years in a row, same campsite, same family by our side. And if you ask my teens their favorite weekend of the year, they'll tell you it's this one.

Here's the story of how it started, what it looks like, and the simple system that makes it better every single year.

How it started

Four years ago, we picked a campground and a random campsite based on nothing more than a few photos online. We found another family who were amateur campers just like us, and we just went for it.

That first trip was only two nights, and we had the very best time. So much so that for the past two years, we've stretched it to three.

We've been back to that exact same campsite every year since. At this point it's nostalgic. Every corner of it holds a memory.

What the weekend actually looks like

About half a mile from our campsite, there's a creek with waterfalls and a swimming hole. The water is ice cold, but it's usually warm out, so it's refreshing, even if you can only stay in for about 30 seconds.

Cooking is our favorite pastime out there. We split the meals with our camping family: we cook two dinners and a breakfast, and they cook two breakfasts and a dinner. Everyone helps each other, the food is delicious, and we always make the best camping desserts.

The rest of the time is wonderfully unplanned. People break off into small groups or get one-on-one time. The kids sit in the hammock, draw, read, and teach each other card games. Some really good lost art happens when there's no Wi-Fi.

They also get to be bored, and figure out what to do about it. Unstructured time is so good for young brains, and honestly, for everyone.

There are plenty of chances to solve problems together, too. The tent is leaking, so how do we fix it? The fire won't stay lit, so how do we get it going? Those little moments give kids room to step up and come up with ideas.

And then there are the small things I love most. Wild turkeys roaming around. Hawks soaring overhead. Looking for feathers. Getting up early to feel the chill in the air, and watching the sun go down over the campfire.

Year four: rain, a rainbow, and no waterfalls

When we pulled up this year, it was pouring. Ironic, since we hadn't seen rain since February. Half of me was panicking about a wet campsite. The other half was completely enamored that it was actually raining.

So we waited it out. A gorgeous rainbow showed up right over our campsite, and I got the tent set up before dusk.

Then came the disappointment: the waterfalls had dried up from the lack of rain. Our favorite part of the trip, gone this year.

And yet, it turned into one of our best years. We played games, did trivia, went on hikes, cooked, and relaxed. It was a good reminder that the magic was never really about the waterfall. It's about being together, unplugged, with nowhere else to be.

The system: Plan, Reflect, Reset, Repeat

I'll be honest: camping is a lot of work. The packing, the food prep, the organizing, thinking through everything, fitting everything in the car. Maybe that's why we only do it once a year. But it gets easier every year, because of four simple steps.

1. Plan

For four years, I've kept one ongoing set of notes: what we bring, what to pack, what we usually eat, which meals worked well, and tips we've picked up along the way.

This year, I handed those notes to ChatGPT and asked it to turn them into real lists: a packing list for each of the kids, a camping gear list, and a list of every food item, so we could check things off as they went into the cooler. Four years of notes became a ready-to-use plan in minutes.

Those exact lists are in the free Camping Plan: our prep checklist, family packing list, kids' packing list, meal plan, and food prep checklist.

2. Reflect

After every trip, I add notes specific to that year and what we learned. What did we actually use? What did we never touch? Is there a better way to do this? What do we need for next year?

This is the step most people skip, and it's the one that makes next year better. Some lessons are learned the hard way. Last year, we forgot the tent poles and had to drive to the store and buy a whole new tent. You can bet 'tent poles' is now at the top of our list. It also taught us to keep all the camping items together in storage to make it much harder to forget something. The Camping Plan includes an After the Trip page for exactly this, so your lessons are written down before life moves on.

3. Reset

When we get home, we clean everything and organize all of our gear so it's ready to go for next year. Future us is always grateful.

Not every experiment works, either. This year we tried storing gear in drawers under a table, and we just didn't like how it worked. So we're fixing it now, while it's fresh, instead of rediscovering the problem next fall.

4. Repeat

By the time the next trip comes around, the plan is already written, the lessons are already learned, and the gear is already waiting. We buy the items on the “need to get” list as it makes sense throughout the year. Each year starts easier and ends better than the last.

It's not really a camping system

Here's the thing I didn't realize until I wrote this out: Plan, Reflect, Reset, Repeat isn't just how we camp. It's how we do every tradition in our family. After each event/season/holiday/vacation, we write notes, get things ready for next time, and make it a little better. (I write everything down while it is fresh in my brain because there is no chance I will remember downstream!)

And notice where the tradition itself lives: right between Plan and Reflect. All that planning is what lets us stop managing the weekend and simply be in it.

My kids count on this weekend. They know it's coming, they know it comes first, and they know we protect it. I think that might be the most important thing it teaches them: that as a family, we decide what matters, and then we make room for it.

What's one tradition your family already protects, or could start protecting this year?

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Happy camping friends!

~Leslie